If you decided to take a break in your relationship, do you agree with the no contact rule on your boyfriend do? Do you think it is better to keep in touch, or by following up your agreement? Are you afraid you’ll be too far away if you do without some contact? These are all valid concerns, if you both still cared. In practice, however, there is no contact rule can serve useful purposes, trouble in the relationship. So what exactly is the no contact rule? In most cases it means that do not in any way linked to a specific time period agreed. This includes face to face contacts, make phone calls, real time messaging, e mail, text messages, and even a real letter. Looked at it and the other is no contact rest did not officially break up, see that it may not be your other half of a way of life. But remember, you can watch how he, through mutual friends. There is nothing to prevent you from or reported to him by a mutual friend. This may make no contact with easy to live with. Now, you may be wondering how something like this might be a good thing at any time in the past. He forgot to keep in touch you in some way if you do not do? In fact, the opposite is true. Through contact with each other, you might spend more time thinking about other people. Although at first thought may have been negative and even anger, as the time is that they become active. Instead of thinking bad things, you may find yourself remembering more good things. This started happening when you’ll know, not associated in the work of the idea. Through without him, you have a lot of time to think about your relationship. I hope you will spend some time trying to understand what was wrong, and this thinking what you want to change from your point of view, if your relationship can work. It can be a good conversation starting point without your consent, contact time expires. You will also have the opportunity to look at what your boyfriend’s life. To be honest. Confirm the good parts and the bad, and that this is the most important. You may find that not even his life very well. This is a good state of mind, to be there just in case something does not work. Contact your relationship can survive the absence rule? Well, frankly, it was a bit like a long distance romance. For some people, it makes things better when they don’t go together. But for other people, lack of communication gaps are too large to create the bridge. Only time will tell.